Is Your Spouse In The State Census More Than Strictly Necessary?

Is your partner getting mail for someone who does not seem to be him at your house?  Has the state census taker called more than once, confused about who he is? (The census taker, not your spouse, — that’s an entirely different problem!)

Is He Keeping a Mistress?

These and other questions might indicate that your partner is cheating, and not just in the sleazy motel on the dark side of town cheating, but the actually married to another person type of cheating.  Cheating is never good.  This kind is worse.

Are You Married to a Bigamist?

Many problems arise from spouses who take cheating to the point of marrying both lovers.  The first is legal, but usually children are involved as well as property, insurance and other financial aspects.  The instant anything goes awry, the center can no longer hold and the whole thing falls apart, leaving very confused “spouses” standing in the ashes.

Is it Time to Investigate?

If you suspect your spouse has married another person – or that you might be the other person – the time to investigate is sooner rather than later. State census is probably only going to be of limited help, but it does contain specifics that might provide clues.

Things like cell phone searches, property records, and email searches are likely to be far better indicators, and evidence in the divorce.  There are ways to find all this data, and people who can do it for you or show you how.

Even if the state census won’t tell you much, if they call wondering which address your spouse lives at, the time to start investigating is now, before your life falls apart.