Don’t ignore the signs

It’s much easier to catch a cheating spouse if you know the signs and then you keep silent until evidences unfold right after you do the appropriate investigations. There are a lot of resources out there that present suggestions of a cheating spouse drawn from countless real life cases. These signs are all common with one or more signs showing in most cases. 

Here are some of the signs of a cheating spouse I ran into from Dr. Reena Sommer and Associates: 

• Your spouse does not share his or her day with you – he or she seems more closed and distant.

• There are changes in your spouse’s working schedule – either starting earlier, ending later or has new demands such as dinners, late meetings etc.

• Your spouse has taken up new interests and/or hobbies that are surprisingly uncharacteristic of him or her.

• Your spouse has taken a sudden interest in his or her appearance – new and different types of clothing, hairstyle or weight loss.

• Your spouse has started to use or has changed his or her perfume/after shave.

• Your spouse leaves the room to receive calls on his or her cell phone.

• When you walk by your spouse while he or she is on the computer, the program window is immediately change or closed.

• Your spouse has begun the habit of showering immediately upon coming home.

• Your spouse is evasive when asked about his or her whereabouts and/or activities during the day – your spouse provides vague responses explaining why he or she is late.

• Your spouse has become uncharacteristically argumentative or critical with no apparent cause such as work, financial or health stressors.

These are but some of the signs based on your spouse’s demeanor. Other signs could include that of your spouse’s colleagues at work or acquaintances. They could sometimes feel uneasy whenever you are around, suddenly showing up at your spouse’s office. Obviously they know a lot of things that explain their awkward feeling in your presence. 

Maybe it’s time to really pay attention to your spouse’s behavior now, don’t you think? Maybe…(hey, not now, honey. I’m busy.) Maybe your spouse could be playing right under your nose.